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10 Things to Cherish About Your Toddler
- Gabrielle Fischer Posted On May 9, 2017 | Social-Emotional Learning
It’s true that toddlers can be trying. Between the temper tantrums, fits of independence, outside voices, and endless questions it’s enough to make a mom go crazy. But there’s also a whole lot to love. Today we are going remind you of 10 things to cherish about – and learn from! – your toddler when times get tough. Things like:
Curiosity and wonder
Toddlers are naturally inquisitive. Seeing the world through their eyes is a constant reminder of the beauty and magic that surrounds us every day. Follow their lead! Next time your toddler slows to scope out a slug on the sidewalk stop! Stop and smell the roses, watch the clouds, and listen to the wind blowing.Living in the moment
For toddlers, there’s no time like the present. Literally. They live without a care for the future or a worry about the past. Who couldn’t do a bit better at living in the now? Forget your schedule, your chores, your work. Play, laugh, sing, and skip when the urge strikes.Playful nature
If play is the work of the child, then toddlers love their work! Anything and everything can be turned into a game, full of delight, surprise, and laughter. So many adults have forgotten how to play but our toddlers are more than happy to show us the way.Beating their own drums
Toddlers live by their own set of rules and are blind to most norms and expectations. They do what they want, say what they want, wear what they want… It’s not always convenient or comfortable for their parents, but admit it… wouldn’t it be nice to do the same?Story time
There’s nothing quite like a sleepy toddler in your lap, listening to a favorite story or humming a sweet tune. Cherish those times… they don’t last forever.Nap time
True, there’s nothing like story time. Except maybe nap time! Yes, toddlers still nap, giving Mom at least a few precious minutes of down time to get a bit of work done or better yet, to relax. (Visit our blog for some truly luxurious ways to pamper yourself at home!)Honesty
For better or worse, there’s no candy coating a toddler’s opinion. You always know just where you stand.Willingness to learn
Toddlers aren’t just willing to learn – they crave new information. Next time you feel reluctant or nervous about taking on a new task, try the toddler approach and dive in head first!The gifts they give
Never turn down a gift from a toddler! Whether it’s a sticky lollipop or a dandelion flower, they’re freely giving you all that they have to give. Accept it – whatever it is! – with open arms.The way they love you
And then, there’s the way they love you. Kisses and cuddles and hugs that make you feel like the most important person in the world – because, to them, you are!Although the days may drag, the years fly by, so relish this time with your toddler!
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What does Spike the Fine Motor Hedgehog include?
- 2 piece hedgehog
- 12 peg shaped quills
How do you use Spike the Fine Motor Hedgehog?
Spike the Fine Motor Hedgehog has lost his quills! Children can take turns putting the hedgehog's peg shaped quills into his back and then pulling them right back out. In addition to all of the speech and language skills listed below, this toy can help children build:- Fine motor skills
- Counting skills: Have your child practice counting each quills or placing them in numerical order. There are numbers on each quill!
- Sorting skills: Practice sorting the quills by color or make it even more complex by having your child sort them into warm vs. cool color categories
Where can I find Spike the Fine Motor Hedgehog?
You can find it on Amazon HERE.How can you use Spike the Fine Motor Hedgehog to encourage speech and language development?
For receptive language development:
- Following directions: Build your child's ability to follow directions by telling them which quill to put in or take out (Examples: "put the red quill in!" or "take the purple quill out!").
- Understanding spatial concepts (in/on/off/out): Work on these early developing spatial concepts by having your child take the quills out of the hedgehog, put the quills on the hedgehogs back and in the hedgehog's body. You could have even more fun by pretending the hedgehog lost all of his quills and hide them around the house! Have your child look for the quills and talk about where they found them (Examples: under the couch, in the sink, behind the bookshelf).
- Understanding quantitative concepts (all/none, more/less, most/least, one/all): Count the quills with your child and take turns placing the quills in the hedgehog's back with your child. Talk about whether you or the hedgehog have most of the quills (or who has the least amount of quills.)
@my_sensoriumFor expressive language development:
- Labeling colors: This hedgehog's colorful quills are a perfect way to help your child learn their colors! Label each color while your child is playing with the different colored quills. Bring in other toys that are the same colors as the quills and sort them so your child can generalize the color names to other items! (*Side note-Children begin to recognize colors at around 18 months and continue to develop this skill through 2 years of age. By three years of age, your child should be able to label at least one color).
- Requesting: Hold the quills so that your child must request in order to get one. Whether they have a little bit of language or a lot of language, you can work on requesting in the following ways:
- If your child's not yet talking: Ask your child "who want's it?" and have your child gesture place their hand on their chest to gesture for "Me!" If they don't gesture independently, take their hand to help them perform the gesture and say "me." Children learn best through our models!
- If your child only has a little bit of language: Encourage your child to use one word to request. Have them use words like "me," "more" or even "quill" to ask you for each quill.
- If your child has some phrases: Support your child's use of phrases to request by working on "I want" phrases. First, model these phrases for your child by asking your child for the quills by saying, "I want quill" or "I want red." Then encourage your child to do the same!
- If your child is perfecting their language: Work on grammatically correct questions with your child. Have your child ask for each quill by saying, "can I have a quill?" or "may I have the red quill?"
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- Functional use of objects: Your child can practice demonstrating the functional use of objects, by putting the quills in and then taking them out.
- Pretend play: Inspire your child to be creative in their play. Pretend that the hedgehog has lost all of his quills in a forest. Imagine that the hedgehog has found his way to a farm and needs the farm animals to help him get them back. Don't be afraid to get silly!
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- Turn taking: Take turns putting the quills in Spike the Fine Motor Hedgehog with your child. Pause before it's your turn, and see if your child will tell you that it's your turn to put a quill in!
- Joint attention: Build joint attention while holding up the quills, putting the quills in or taking them out. See if your child will look at you, look at the quill, and then back at you. This joint attention, or shared interest, is an important early milestone of language development.
- Asking questions: Model appropriate questioning during play by asking your child questions like, "What color do you like?" or "Where do you think we should look for the quills?" Encourage them to ask you questions back!
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